Should I move out so I can see my boyfriend?

ok Im 20 years old and my Parents wont let me date. What?\ Im in college and Well They want to know where Im at at all times. I cant hang out with my boyfriend that my dad doesnt know about. and Well My boyfriend is getting really really stressed out over the whole ordeal I love him he loves me. He wants me to move out. Becuase my Dad and mom told me Either Him or us . If you choose him Well take your car away disown you take you off the will Kick you out and not to mention WILL NEVER CARE. Should I move out if my dad says no tomorrow When I ask him. My whole family is against this Guy they hate hime some like him Hes a sweetheart his whole family Is Amazing my family used to be. I really Dont know what to do Im Scared I never stick up for my self AT aLl. what DO I DO??

Answer #1

My parents didn’t like my boyfriend for a long time. They threatened to disown me once. We’ve been married two years now and they seem to have warmed up to him.

Answer #2

Can you talk to your parents? Maybe compliment the way they raised you so well so you can later say that you’re grown up. Most parents just want the best for their kids. They probably want you to focus on school. What they don’t understand is that as they baby you into your 20’s, they are crippling you. Do you work?

Answer #3

If you can stand on your own legs in the life then move out from such a controlling family. But be really sure of that you will not need their support. If you cannot do this, then wait for the time when you can be independent, then say good bye to them.

Answer #4

your 20 years old do what you want ithey havn’t got no say in it I feel sorry for you

Answer #5

hmmm well…

I do believe that they were controlling your life and now that your trying to run your own life they are seeing that you have changed and they don’t like that because they think its bad because they cant control you but its actually a change for the better! For parents theres never going to be the perfect person for their daughter in their eyes but if what you have is true Love and a great thing you should keep it because when your dating your just finding a suitable person to marry and not date just to date so they should realize that and also realize that you are an ADULT now and you where raised good enough that you can make your own decisions on your own.

Love ya babe! ;)

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