How do I tell my grandmother Im moving away to be with boyfriend?

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I am 24 years old and have been on my own since I was 18. I once moved to Austin for 3 years when I graduated but decided to move back to my home town thats when I met him! I live in a small town in Texas and thats where we met he lives in Georgia now and wants me to move down there. We know it is right and we have been talking about me moving ever since he left 6 months ago I just havent had the guts to tell my grandmother. I know its far away but its my life and I think I shouldnt feel bad about wanting to go be with my soul mate. My grandmother has always been my rock but I know this is going to upset her so much. I am affraid that she is going to dis own me. Another problem is that I am white and he is black. I have never judged anyone on color but she does so this is going to put even a bigger burden on her. I dont know what to do but I am ready to move right now. Please someone help me do this!

Answer #1

well dont be in such a hurry to leave remeber bys are bipolar but if this is what you feel is right go explain that you love he dearly but you also love him and tll her at this point in life life is short and you need to grasp every chance at happy ness u get. and tell her when you see him you dont see a black person you see somene who loves you and tell her your not abandonig her but part of letting go is moving on so I defintley thinkk shee will take it hard but if this is what you beilieve you should do then by damn well do it best of luck hun

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