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I’ve been seeing this guy for a month now I just recently lost my virginity to him. Well the other day he was over at my house and we wanted to have sex. My little brothers kept peeking and opening the door but they eventually stopped. Well we started kissing and stuff and then he said he couldn’t do it but then he tried again and we started to actually do it but then he said again that he couldn’t do it. He got a phone call and started to leave and I tried to ask him what was wrong but he wouldn’t answer me and I asked him if he was going to call, he said yeah but I was still confused on to why he was just bolting like that and then I called him later on to see if he was okay and he said he was cool and he asked if I was crying and I told him no and he didnt really say much else and I haven’t heard from but I’m just confused on why he just left like that…does anyone have any ideas???

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Answer #1

well im pretty sure if he was saying he couldnt do it and got a call randomly then bolted out ask if your crying hes probably cheatin on you he probably asked if your crying to see if you where upset at him to see if you knew or not but I don’t know I’ve never cheated on any one and never been cheated on but this is my openion hope this helps

Answer #2

maybe he just didn’t feel comfortable with the whole kids peeping in thing…so next time if you guys want to do it, just make sure you guys are alone, in that way, you both can be comfortable not worrying about people peeping in..if it happens again…then maybe he’s cheating on you.

Answer #3

Can’t really tell. But it sounds like he was uncomfortable about the situation of kids can still get up and peep. Guys can quickly get turned off. And try 2 force themselves to stay hard or perform. And he could be embarresed and couldn’t tell you what’s really going on. So when someone called that was his exscuse to leave in akward situation. Best advice is to go somewhere private. And if it happens again than you know he is cheating.

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