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Why,..I'm so confused I need some help about a boy?

Okay, so I have hooked up with this guy before (not all the way sex, just finger and makeout) and well after that we stoped talking I was kind of okay with it. He texted me a few days ago ( about a month after the first time we hookedup and that was the only time) and was saying how he wants to hang again ;) ( with the wink face) and saying how the first time was so great. I’m not sure what I should do? I mean obviously I know it would be just a hook up and he’s not the type of guy I could like or anything, and we agreed not to tell anyone, but should I go thru with this or not? I wouldn’t really do anything to him because I don’t like giving head, so really it would be like me using him more than him using me because I would be getting the pleasure not him right? UGH just give your advice and try to be nice. thank you.

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Answer #1

really if you want to get the pleasure then go ahead, just do what you want. really I think that him just being able to “touch” you is enough for him if thats what you did before and he knows you don’t give head. really I doubt that he’ll rape you, the news blow those stories way out of proportion, theres like 100 times more people that don’t get raped when doing that as there are that do! I don’t think that you’d be using him at all. I hope that helps. =)

Answer #2

For advice, if you do like him then I would disagree to do it, becuase you’ll only be hurting yourself because he wont feel the same way. But if you dont, it depends on what you think. If you wan tto do it then go ahead. One other thing is dont regret your decision, I’ve done that and its valuable thing for someone forgive you for what you did.

Answer #3

you should consider the options you have and how you feel about the situation. if you like him then no, you shouldnt do it for you will only end up getting hurt. also think what could possibly happen, not all guys are nice and who knows what could happen to you if you do go. I mean the news show a lot of girls getting raped. but also, the main important thing, is to do what you REALLY want. as in no REGRETS no SECOND THOUGHTS. because it would be terrible if later on in life you think “wow I wish I never did that”

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