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I'm Not Ready

Okay, I’m 15. Still a virgin, I try to stay away from all sexual things because I don’t want to be tempted. Anyways I plan to stay a virgin until I’m married. I told my boyfriend, that and he was like “okay” He thinks we should have sex even though he knows I don’t want to. He says he’s okay with it but, I know he isn’t. I mean it’s not just him it’s everyone, all they do when their around is talk about fuckng me and how tight I must be

So my question is: How do I turn away from it when he starts to get sexual? and How do I explain to him that I want to stay a virgin until I’m married?

I don’t know how! I don’t want him to break up with me because of this.

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Answer #1

He knows you aren’t interested in having sex, so if he ever tries that’s when you need to kick him to the curb. If he truly cares about you he’ll respect your choice. You don’t need to explain WHY to him, that’s your life, your business. If he’s going to break up with you over this then he obviously care about you, at all.

Answer #2

Tell him your not ready and your not going to. Then when he trs something remind him of that and if he cares he will stop. If he doesnt stop explain that if he wants it then your not right foreach other but you care about him and you want to stay with him but your ot ready. As far as thouse other people if there not your friend tell them to get over themselves you dont care and stop caring. If they are tell them if there trully your friend there respect your desition and you will find your real friends and who your fake friends are. thats all I have to tell you hope it helps sorry if it doesnt

Answer #3

hmmm,,, well I guess you should tell him if he plans on having sex with you truly before y’all are married then he is going to have to find someone else…

that way he will know your serious serious

if he wants to go then he will probably be like ok then I need to find someone else

Answer #4

all you can do is break up with him if he dont respect you .

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