How to tell my boyfriend I'm not ready?

my new boyfriend and I the other night and were laying on the bed just talking and he asked about my boundaries were with sex.. im a virgin and am not ready.. im also not really into other things. I really dont know how to tell him and what he will think.

what should I do?

Answer #1

you should tell him that you’re not ready. if he’s a sweet and caring guy he will wait for as long as you need.

Answer #2

Tell him how you feel. Tell him your not ready.If he trully loves you,it shouldnt matter to him and he will wait until you are. Hope to have helped :)

Answer #3

Ok. tell him how you feel… if he cares for you.. then it should not matter, and if he is a duche’ about it, then just keep it moving, because there are way too many guys out there. anyways, good luck. :]

Answer #4

Tell him the truth. If not then you’re going to set him up for failure and he’s going to resent you.

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