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What if I'm not sure I'm ready but I'm sexually frustrated?

I really really Love my boyfriend off. I cant go a day with out talking to him if I dont I feel like im missing something …a year ago we talked about s*x and I told him I aint ready I may feel like I am but im not…we are kinda sexually active we fool around we have done oral and hes fingered me but I cant seem to get around to intercourse…I get days were im so sexually wound up I get frusturated out of my mind and when we see each other I go balistic on him but doesnt end up going to tat point …I dont noe y …like I love him, I knoe hes the one for me and I sure hes the only one I want to have it with. please help me what should I do

P.s im 20 hes 21, weve been dating for 17 months now …he isnt a virgin and hes having a harder time then me

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Answer #1

You don’t sound at all ready to me and that shouldn’t matter. Wait until it feels right. If he is pressuring you, he isn’t showing you love, he is selfishly wanting sex.

Answer #2

honestly.. it doesn’t seem like your ready. and if you don’t know if your ready… then your simply NOT!

he should understand.. and if he doesn’t… tell him to take a hike…

Answer #3

Just get it over and done with…geeeze…remember to use protection!!!

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