How can I move out of my Mom's house?

I’m not a Mom but I’m old enough to know now that most of my Mom’s advice was actually right. I lost my Mom at only 18 and I can honestly tell you, no one’s love is like your Mom’s love. Though she may not seem understanding, her intentions are only to guide you to the right path. It’s sad that parents don’t get the credit they really deserve from their children. All that they’ve sacrificed for their children. I understand that at your age it’s hard to understand where your Mom is coming from and she may seem like the world’s worst nagging machine ever but know that she loves you dearly. I’m not too much older from you but I can honestly say you better appreciate her guidance while she’s still here.

Believe it or not but Moms are the best doctors in the whole world. Running away from your Mom is like throwing priceless love away. Sit down with her, you set the pace. Tell her you love her and you appreciate all that she’s done for you but you need some space now that you’re a little older. Ask her what it is that she needs from you for her to trust you then come to an agreement. This conversation can change your relationship with her forever so what are you waiting for? There’s always two sides to the story so I’m not on your side or your Mom’s. I learned first hand that I got more freedom after I earned my Mom’s trust. EARNing trust takes time so be patient. Once she trusts you, she’ll trust that it’s ok for her to back off because you are making wise/mature decisions on your own.

Do yourself and your Mom a favor, put yourself in her shoes for once. In this society now a days with all of the diseases, drugs, single motherhood, murders, gangs, lack of education, your Mom has every right to worry about you. I realize all this w/o being a Mom b/c my sisters have kids. They do so much for their kids. Their worlds surrounds their children. It’s sad that when these kids becomes teenagers, they look at their Moms like they’re just irritating nagging machines and ignore their Mom’s sacrifices and all of their hard work raising them. When you get older, you’ll look back at your Mom’s lectures and realize you were wrong all along. They’re not always right but at least give them the credit of having only good intentions.

Usually you won’t have a really good relationship with your Mom until you are older because that’s when you’ve already realize how much she loved you and how much you had fought back. Take a momment to thank God that your Mom is still alive. That’s the advice I give everyone who still has a Mom…

Hope this helped you. Take care and live your life open-mindedly.

IT’S NOT going to B EZ AT FIRST, BUT F you GOT SOMEBODY 2 HELP you OUT IN MOVING ,JUST GO 4 IT.U JUST GOTTA MAKE SURE THAT’S what you REALLY WANT and IT’S NOT JUST A FAZE.TRY TO GET A JOB,MAKE SOME MONEY and SAVE IT,THAT WAY you CAN MAKE THINGS EASIER 4 U. I MOVED OUT F MY HOUSE WHEN I was 14,NOW I’M 27 and IT HASN’T BEEN EASY BUT I SURVIVED.JUST MAKE SURE you WON’T REGRET IT because THEN your REALLY going to HAVE SOME PROBLEMS WIT your MOM and SHE CAN MAKE your LIFE A LIVING HELL.