How do you get your guys attention when all he wants to do is veg out or hang with his bf who buy the way i can't stand sometimes,, i mean when he is over all he does is sit with my husband and talk to girls on his Mypace and i hate it.. i know i shouldn't get jealous over a myspace but i feel like he is enabling my husband to try and check girls out cuz he is like ohh look at this one she is hot,,,,i just hate him, but how to i get my husband to pay attention to me other than when he wants sex of course... with out begging for it or pissing him off, he does not talk about his feelings and just gets mad when i do because he can't understand how i can feel lonely and he still in the room... and guys got a view i haven't thought of i mean is this just a guy thing or is it as crappy as i feel it is?
Well i think you are right, there should be commuication and he shouldn't make you feel this way, if you tell him how you feel and he doesn't care then there is something defiantly up with him that should be resolved because you shouldn't have to live like that feeling lonely and all... You really should sit and talk to him about how you feel and if he doesn't like it then maybe you should look at what you can do... for example marriage counseling or something... maybe even something more extreme... Communication is key in a relationship.
Good luck Jason
You definetly need to speak to him about how you feel. you are his wife and you deserve the right to talk to your husband when you are feeling down about something. Talk to him calmly about it, dont yell or scream at him cos he will become defensive and wont want to listen. Talk to him about your feelings and get him to see your point of view and how he makes you feel sometimes.