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Affair with best friend's husband??

I can’t stop thinking about my best friend’s husband. They’ve been married for about 5 years & I was never sexually attracted to him until last year. All three of us were drinking and ended up in bed together. Then, a few weeks later after some drinking… he & I ended up kissing and getting caught by my friend. A few weeks ago, he and I were alone at their house almost the whole day while my friend was at work & he approached me and we made out for hours, but didn’t have sex. He also told me he’s there anytime I need a sex buddy. I love my friend to death and I feel very guilty, but I can’t resist myself when I’m around this guy. I’m single & haven’t dated or been with anyone in awhile - could it be I’m just really horny? I can’t stop fantasizing about him!

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Answer #1

If you cant resist your feelings for him, then you need to stop being around him! Its normal to feel the way you are, but it doesnt mean you have to act on those feelings! You are crossing the lines of friendship by your selfishness! Obviously you are more loyal to yourself and give in to your insecurities rather than being happy for someone else. The grass IS NOT always greener on the other side, it is evident that the two of them are good together, doesn’t mean you two would be. Get a grip on yourself and your hormones. Think about who you are going to hurt and get past this infatuation. Just because you are single doesnt give you rights to other peoples husbands. Fix YOUR problems, and avoid messing up other people’s lives. Learn to be happy on your own two feet, and you will find someone who can truly be your partner, and find yourself a sex buddy who isnt already taken!!

Answer #2

I think this is a very nasty situation., You are not a friend at all. I can’t even speak on this situation

Answer #3

u have to master mind witch relationship is more importing to you, once u figuer that outand find away to get hormone’s out the way, you’ll be fine, i hope.

Answer #4

I can relate to what you are going through, but I don’t think betraying your friend is the answer.

Maybe your friend and her husband should talk about this. If all three of you were together once before, maybe you could do that again. Or maybe she would be open to having an open relationship.

So it is possible for you to maybe have the best of both worlds so to speak, having him sexually without betraying her.

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