How do I tell my parents I'm bisexual?

see im a guy, and im bi, my parents are always discussed by gay and bi people, there the kind that are mean about it and are always critisizing it when there talking about gay marridge and stuff like that my moms a church whore and is always forcing me to go and my step dad just goes along and to me I feel that whatever makes you happy do it unless it illegal of course but I want to tell my parents but im afraid they wont accept the fact that im bi and might end up putting me in some club where parents put there kids in to make them not gay, but the thing is I dont want to go thru the trouble of going and I want them to accept it. please help!

Answer #1

its probably best not 2 tell them because parents always over react and i have a friend who is having the same problem and that is wat i told her.

Answer #2

I have a friend in the same situation, although he is gay not bi, and he has known it for 2 years yet hasn’t said anything to his parents who are very religious and bias against sexualities other than straight. Although it’s hard for him, he takes comfort in having friends who accept him and knows that one day he will tell his parents when they won’t be able to influence him (or force him) to go somewhere to change. It may be hard, but if you really think they will send you somewhere and you don’t want to go through that, try holding out and confiding in friends or other family who you can trust until the time is right to tell your parents. Good luck

Answer #3

I do not know how old you are. Till you are under your parents’ control, i do not advise you to force informing them about your sexual interest. You write that you are bi, so you can have a g/f. Do have. And do not tell your parents about your episodical bi adventures. If episodical. If not episodical ppl around you will find it out without your information, be sure about this. Anyway I feel that for the present even you do not know what you want to be.

Answer #4

ur mom sould not force u into being staight thats very mean and dont let them force u into the club fight it n say if you truely love me as your son you sould exept me no matter wat!!! tats wat u sould say before u tell them ur bi!!! stay strong xoxo!!!

Answer #5

if i wer u id keep it a secret 4 a while longer n if u finally want 2 tell them say it ter your parents they luv u no matter wat!!!

Answer #6

just tell them and if they love you they wont care.

Answer #7

I feel the same. I had recently become bi and I have a girlfriend but were secret but shes working on telling her mom. I was once les then ym mom found out and threatened bible school every day. I became straight for a while until me and my girlfriend admitted to eachother that we were bi. So now, Im scared as heck the theyre gonna send me to one of those club-thingies too. I dont know how to tell them and my mom used to force me to go to church and my family is full of homophobics. So, Im scared to tell them too.

Answer #8

One of the things to do in a time like this Is wait for the right moment I mean obviously your parents are gonna be disappointed but they should also remember that they love you and If they can’t accept that then its either you run away for a while or just deal with what ever is coming towards your way just remember that there your parents and they can’t hurt you they will only hurt themselves for never accepting there own son , honestly In time they will learn how to accept you and learn how to face there fears just give yourself time and them time.

Answer #9

Im bi to I think I’ve none this ever since I was little because things happened so as my advice I think it is good to stay true to your parents. for my new years solution is to tell my parents but its Jan 28 so I’ve totally chickened out. so apparently I don’t have much advice but make sure its the perfect time and if you think they will disown you then you might not want to tell them

Answer #10

Im bi too, but my parents dont know. My dad would say its just a phase and my mum would treat me diferently, and I dont want that because we are so close. Im 13, so it may well just be a phase, but Im not sure. My dad recently left my mum and she suggested seeing a counsellor as im not taking it well, so I suppose I could tell the cousellor??

Answer #11

Greetings fellow user, You may be having this problem for the folowing reasons, also I hope you enjoy my help, and rate my advice, Thank you very much, and enjoy the help below! -Your parents should accept this although they don’t. You did not choose this! You did not choose your fate! If stupid people who cannot accept that people don’t choose these things, are making fun of you just ignore them. But however in my religous veiw, the only reason you should have sex is to reproduce. -Hope my advice help you, Don’t forget to rate =)

     -Phil2611  pm me if you want to.
Answer #12

I see no reason to tell them.

As much as adults tell you that “communication is important during these years”, some things are /your/ business, and your parents have no reason of getting into that.

Your parents keep more secrets from you than you think - they should respect your privacy, as well.

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