How should I come out to my parents that I'm bisexual?

They said they would except no matter my sexuality, but there’s something about that makes me not want too tell them, What should I do?

Answer #1

I think there’s no pressure telling it to your parents yet, it’s too early. Don’t think about it for now, they may not understand you well because your only 13. Give it some more time so you can gather strength through your experiences in life to tell it to your parents.

Answer #2

i was 12 when i told my parents i was bi nd my friends dad is bi give it some thought nd think for a bit then talk to ur prents they wont be mad..

Answer #3

Hey bro! I think you should wait until you are 15. I sound condescending but it is true. Many adults think that 13 is too young to know how you feel and tell them when you are older. Also if you know your parents will understand just tell them. If you think they may have a bit of a problem don’t…yet.

Answer #4

Believe me if you’re 13 a lot of ideas and views WILL change over the next 5 or 6 years (I’m 18 this year, 19 in Oct). I’m not just talking about your sexuality but also your political and religious views, and even the people you choose to hang out with. I’m not saying you’re lying or just being curious, but I’m telling you that at your age what you think and believe will change and they change fast. So even you’re bisexual now, you might not be a few years later. Hence, if I were you, I wouldn’t tell your parents. Yet. :)

Answer #5

Yea. You should wait a bit longer. I know you don’t like all these comments about you being too young and not knowing… I don’t know you, so I don’t know how sertain or serios you are… But I do know, that waiting a bit longer is good idea. You don’t know what might happen in the next 2-3 years. You might change your mind, you might even get even surer about your feelings. And when you tell your parents about this later, they will take it more seriosly and hopefully be more calm and accepting about it. You will have more success with this talk if you wait a bit. And you should deffinitely tell your parents eventually. It will not only be good for them, but for you too. I have seen too many of my friends sad and depressed because they have to keep their sexual orientation a secret from their parents.

Answer #6

your thirteen. you really wont know your sexuality till your older and actually fornicating.

Answer #7

Maybe you’d find it easier to tell them that you’re exploring your sexuality to learn more about who you are..

Answer #8

I had a very hard time doing this with my parents. It actaully came out in the middle of a fight that i had a girlfriend, they were shocked but ok with it. It may be diffrent with your parents, but maybe just sit them down and just be straight with them. It may take them a while to warm to the idea, but you are their child and they do love you, so eventually they will be able to accept who you really are <3

Answer #9

I knew when I was 13 I liked girls AND boys. I just didnt understand why. I HAVE had boyfrieinds b4 but am now single. I have always visited my fav Aunt every summer (we live on opposite coasts) and sice her husband is an overseas pilot he was rarely there. When he wasnt I’d sleep at night with my aunt. Although she was my aunt and nothing has EVER happened, snuggling with her at night felt better that with my bf. During one stay I asked her for my “Birthday Spanking”, lol. After the 17th smack, and one to grow on, I started bawling. She sat me on her lap and hugged me and asked me what was wrong. I “confessed” that I was bi and scared to tell my parents. She smiled and told me ‘honey, ur parents ALREADY know, and so do I” I was SHOCKED but then again, they ARE your parents so while you ARE a lil young, relax. Your parents may or may not know but you should not worry about that now. Enjoy your youth and time with your g/f.

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