How can I cheer myself up when I'm a depressed 13 year old?

My mom has cancer, my dad lost his job, and we don’t have a lot of money. None of my friends seem to care. I’m only 13 and my life already feels like it’s going to end!

Answer #1

omfg, poor you buddy, Not sure wether your a guy or girl so im gunna call you buddy. Just think, it wont always be bad. Your friends will care and if they dont they are not your friends, if I was your friend and you were going through this I would try to help you as much as I can. just try having as much fun as you can and dont let it get to you. It will sort it self out and there a people living on the streets, be happy you have a home. Just try and enjoy being a kid, thats the most important thing, have fun and find a girlfriend/boyfriend. that is the most important thing. I lost 2 of my uncles and my grandad in 2 months and my girlfriend got me through it. Just be positive about life. Dont get depressed and just have fun in life. maybe join a group or a club to meet new people and dont be decretive, Live life to the full and have fun, your still a kid. I hope this helps. if you have any reply, william.inchbald@hotmai.com

Answer #2

Sorry to hear the bad news & I’m going to give you some advice that hopefully will help you. When things are so bleak & you feel you are powerless to stop these horrific things that keep happening the best thing you can do is comfort your family speak with your mom & dad & truly bond together as a family to create a union that right now seems broken. The love & relationship you have with family is strong & when you all work together to keep on fighting to make things better . You have a unbeatable force called hope & it inspires great things. I guarantee your sadness will turn into a strong will to fight for your families well being & when you help other you help yourself. I think you will make it & I hope you can be strong for your family & yourself . Next time you speak with your parents let them know you love them & you are there for them . I’m sure they feel just like you & they need to hear the same . Keep fighting kiddo . I can’t tell you things will be better but I can tell you, you give it a better chance by keeping your family a whole. Feel free to msg me =)

Answer #3

I’m sorry to here that. if I were you I would spend a lot of time with your family or just enjoy yourself

Answer #4

I feel so sorri for you to be honest I think the main thing is tostop feeling sorri for yourself I know it may sound mean, but maybe you should forget all the bad things going on go out with your mates and have a laugh try to put all negative thoughts away.Stop focusing on all the bad things try to stay positive and be happy, and know people are there to support you…x

Answer #5

You should try meditation, just try to clear your head of all negative/depressing thoughts and just remember, it could be worse. Consider yourself fortunate. Some people don’t even have a house. Just meditate and try to bring your family closer. And when/if your mom passes away, just honor her memory. But other than that, meditate, hang out with you friends, and find a boyfriend/girlfriend who loves you. My boyfriend has helped me through so much since I got depressed a few years ago, and I still don’t regret finding him. Also, just do whatever you feel is right and try to bond with you family, even though it’ll hurt when they break apart. I wish you, your mom, and you dad well.

Answer #6

. you could get a part time job to help out I guess

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