Im 13 and I think im pregnant

Im 13 and I think im pregnant. My dads best friend did it to me. If I am then hes the dad. I didnt want him to but he forced me. He hurt me til I did. He said that if I told anyone he wud kill my mum. Im scared and I’ve missed 2 periods. And I have bought a pregnancy test. It came out positive. I darent tell my mum, or anyone else. She as been asking me what has been rong but I have just been saying I dont feel well. I’ve spent most of my time at my best friends house but cant bring myself to tel her. I keep breaking down and I am scared that he will hurt me again. What shal I do. I dont want to tel my mum. Please help

Answer #1

You MUST report it to someone you trust of Authority - you need to be checked asap - some info:

Rape Support: 1-800-656-HOPE or 1-800-656-4673

If you need someone to just listen, just talk to, or pray with you:

24 hrs: 1-800-488-4673

Ask-A-Nurse: 1-800-892-8260

Please get help, if able, keep us advised, we care here !!

Answer #2

This was not your fault, I agree with all the answers people have given you…Yes please tell your mum and dad, tell them to contact the authorities, this was not your fault . Please do not feel as if you did anything wrong. Give this to God, child. I know, how I know, how hard life is and how horrible things can happen in the blink of an eye. But do you know that God loves you? God can and will take the things that satan meant for bad and turn them to good. Sweetie, call those numbers that ‘amblessed’ gave you (that was so sweet) If you haven’t asked God into your heart do that now. See that is what ‘taking what was meant for harm and turning it to good ‘ means. This could be the thing that brings you to God and saves your soul. If you are already saved than this is the time to start using what you know and learning more. Pray, pray and pray. “Pray without ceasing” I think Paul said…Read your bible. Talk to God like He is your best friend because He should be. When you have tough things on your mind, go somewhere to get still and let your spirit search diligently for God’s voice. Whether you need the strength of a rock or the comfort of His arms around you, cry out to God, He will answer you. My favorite preacher is JoyceMeyerMinistries.org She is so awesome and has prayer partners as well. Really, God is the only way to go. He is the way to peace and Joy. Please keep us informed.

Answer #3

I feel so bad for you right now. Call the cops. He won’t kill her. IOf the cops got him. Make sure you call them when you’re postive where he is at. && he isnt near you to know what you are doing. Tell you’re mom too help you call the cops you’re dad will most likley want revenge and kill him before cops get there

Answer #4

PLEASE DONT GET AN ABORTION!!! I KNOW YOUR ONLY 13 BUT YOUR KILLING ANOTHER HUMAN BEING THAT COULD DO SOMETHING SPECIAL IN HIS/HER LIFETIME!!

Answer #5

CALL the COPS.. I repeat ..CALL THE COPS.. Report it.. Tell your DAD..TELL YOUR MUM… TELL EVERYONE YOU KNOW AND TRUST >> REPORT HIM.. DONT DELAY.. TELL STRAIGHT AWAY.. DO IT.. PROMISE NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO YOU.. YOU WILL BE PROTECTED BY THE LAW.. REPORT HIM.. I REPEAT REPORT HIM!!!

Answer #6

When you start to show that will stink. TELL SOMEONE! My dads a police officer and I showed him this post and he said that if you dont tell someone in your area he can help you. He can track down your computer and tell for you. :)

Answer #7

you have to learn that no matter what a guy says its best if you get it all out there are options if thats true thats just pathetic if you ask me I think hes very sick and nasty I would kill somebody if they did that to me but anyways update me ill hit you up

Answer #8

You need to tell your parents and go straight to the police. If you don’t he could harm you again OR harm other innocent children. It’s going to have to come out sooner or later, because you are pregnant. Make it now! Good luck sweetie.

Answer #9

tell your mum, get the cops, have him arrested and you will be safe. if you are pregnant you need to get that sorted ASAP before it ruins your life. There is still hope for you yet and the guy who did it will get sent away for a long long time.

Please tell your Mum, parents are scary sometimes but they are your bestest friend and you need to tell her.

Best of luck

Answer #10

you should go and tell your mum thats rape and shouldnt be allowd and he can get charged so don’t sit by and let him get away with it and do you want the baby that the thing

Answer #11

You need to tell your mom. Right away. It wasn’t your fault, but I think now your parents and the law need to be involved. What that guy did to you was illegal. Don’t let him get away with that. You need to tell someone as soon as possible.

Answer #12

Tell your parents. You need to. You are so young and he shouldnt have done what he did to you.. or anyone. Please get some help ASAP.

Answer #13

I told my mum last night and we had to go to the police. im going to the doctors today becoz im not going to have the baby and I’ve got to have some tests for if he has given me enithing. my dads friend has been arrested and my dad has beaten him up. but I dont feel any better. it has ruined my life and I feel so embarrased and I feel like I cant trust anyone anymore. thankyou for all the posts they have helped me realise that I had to tell my mum and it was the best thing to do. I told my best friend first though xxx

Answer #14

report a rape

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