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He has done it but I told her no

my mom talked with me a couple days ago to see if this guy has done anything to me yet and I told her no but he has and I told him about it and he said my mom was tripin so what should I do

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Answer #1

Aloha abby1995,

I do not think that your Mother is freaking out or tripin at all sounds as though she is just worried about you and what not…the fact that the guy you are with does not understand that and by the sounds of it does not respect that is not a good sign at all.

Just not good NOPE NOPE NOPE.

Even though some times it may not seem like it keep in mind your mother does have what she believes is your better interest in mind…sometimes it is not your better interest mind you that but the moitive behind it is honorable really.

I would go back and tell her the truth having open communication is key to any type of a relationship.

She chews you out for it well then you know that next time you shouldn’t tell her and let her know that is how it is going to be.. she may not chew you out and she is smart not to really.

I do not know about the guy you are with I do not know him but sounds like he may have some issues from the little that you have said.

Take care and Good Luck, Faolan Blood

Answer #2

Mothers knows best and it wasnt right to lie to her.

Answer #3

Your mom is not “trippin” she is being a concerned and loving mother. She just wants the best for you and to protect you. This guy you are seeing should respect you and her. I’m not saying ya’ll can’t have sex, because it’s obviously to late for that, I’m just saying, you both should respect her and know that all she is doing is trying to protect you. Dont do anything you dont want to do, and dont let him pressure you into things.

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