what are some of the pros and cons of having a secret baby
Cons: Your child not knowing where they came from, your child not being able to have a daddy, you not getting the emotional and financial support that you will need for your child, your child always wondering why he/she doesn't have a father like all the other kids, you having sole financial responsibility for your child, you being a single mother and being the only one taking care of your child, you having all the emotional burdens of raising a child alone, you not being able to share the good times with the child's father, you going to work and worrying about who is watching your child, you taking your child to their first day of kindergarten...and crying on your own shoulder, you watching your son/daughter get their high school diploma and sharing the joy with...who?, you watching your son/daughter walk down the isle to get married, you looking at your first grandchild and wondering why did I do this?
Pros: Not having to share your child...no maybe that would also be a con.
why would you want to do that? if he is in the picture (your life) if he sees you or moreso lives with you you will not be able to hide it, well you could up to 6 months but thats it!!
& I agree with sis if he finds out later he will get that annoyed he will just walk out,, do you want that?
& wouldnt you want that baby you are carrying to know who the father is, dont you want your baby to have a father?
Pro's: Not having the father stress about it, cons; Chances are, when he finds out you are prego and you didn't tell him, then the more likely he is to get pissed or leave you.. And btw you cannot hide it that long..
Depends? You havent exactly told us what the father is like... If he's the abusive type I'd say there are no cons... This cant be answered until we have a little more information...
Support for the you and the baby would be non-existent - emotional, monetary, etc - constant, loving, male role model missing in their life - bottom line: not a good idea at all.
