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Is it bad to like two guys at once?

The first guy is a month older than me but a grade behind me and a bit shorter. We became friend at the beggining of 4th quarter my 8th grade yr. We always joked around at first then really started talking about more serious stuff and not just making gross jokes. My bff says the reason I can’t get over him is because we became close at the end of the yr. The there is this other boy a grade ahead of me. I don’t really know him and he doesnt really know me. He is taller and athletic and from what I hear a totally sweet guy. He just has a little temper(which is fine cuz when people get outta line I kick there ass back in check :) and from what I have heard we seem like we would really work. But he has a girlfriend. What should I do?

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Answer #1

First of all, you gotta lay off taken guys. It really isnt cool and trust me, i’ve been there, done that. A hell lotta drama that gave me. It’s pretty ok to like 2 guys at once, maybe 3 as long as you aint leading both of them on.

The first guy you’ve mention sounds like a prettty neat guy. Maybe you should try getting to know him more and spend more time with him – ONLY because the second guy has a girlfriend. Even if the second guy likes you too, you have to consider what the gf would feel about it. Do anything you want but one that doesnt get you into any trouble (:

Dont think im telling you who to choose. Just give yourself time with both of them to see who you really want. Thats if ur looking for a more-than-friends thing.

Answer #2

no its not bad two like two guys…………..but u should be commited with only one of them

Answer #3

If you like two guys, you should probably go with the one you fell for second, because if you truly liked the first guy, you wouldnt of fallen for the second one.

Answer #4

<3 haha

Answer #5

wt do u mean committed

Answer #6

the 2nd 1 i dont really know and he doesnt even know me…i found out about him is because a friend a grade ahead uv me said tht this 2nd guyy seemed like we could work and it was a mistaske turns out he is single….so tht kinda changes things

Answer #7

Then that’s your green light , girl ;) Go for it and good luck :D

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