How can i help keep this guy away from my friend and cosin?

You cannot do anything, it is their lives and the only way they’ll learn is after they have the babies and realize what a jerk this guy is.Then again, he isn’t only at fault, because it takes two two get into a mess like this and if they want to be doormats, I say let them.

i dont but they are so desperate to keep him cause hes there babys father

u can say that but i cant theve been through so ruff times and ive kept them on teh right track till this @sshole came along and now hes ganna ruin everything

Nothin u can do

It’s not your job to keep them on the right track. Good heavens. They are going to be mothers now and it is their responsibility. Plus if you do this for them, how on EARTH are they going to learn to deal with things themselves.

It’s extremely unfortunate, but there isn’t much you can do to keep him away from them. You could try a world of different methods, but at the end of the day they will still choose who it is that they want to be with. If that’s him, they’ll do it regardless of whether or not you’re okay with it.

I can understand your position and I can completely understand that you want to help them and protect them, but it is their choice. It is not your responsibility to be their parent, and it is not within your rights to tell them what to do. You’re 14, you need to take care of yourself.

how are they suppose to know what to do? (sry wasnt suppose to sound mean) they have no parents i have to help them cause no one else will i got the to go back to school when they dropped out and did my best to keep aholes away from them i just cant stand watching this happen to them

i know but i got him to stay away for a while a few monthes back from them they were depressed but ok now hes bac and hes hurting him worse i cant stand to watch there my soul sisters

It is very bad, and it’s too bad this is happening, but to tell you the truth your friend and cousin are old enuff to realize their mistakes. You are 14 and them being that old are going to think that you are folish, even dough you do seem to have more knoledge that they do. Meaby you can contact and adult to help them out? That my best choice.

actaully they usally listen to me i act alot older then most ppl relize but there somthing in this guy they say i dunno what to do

Unfortunately age of consent in NC is 16. Otherwise you could have had him put in ja.il. Hmm. Does he have babies with anyone who was under 16 at the time they had sex?

no fortanly the other girls were smarter to tell him to go and there not in nc with there in florida but they also had parental permican (well cosin did my friends sisster just told the cops it was fine shere her guarndin