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Girlfriend Wants A Baby

My girlfriend wants to have a baby, she’s 25, I’m 20, Financially we are really well, only thing is, My father was an asshole, he left my mum 10 years ago and I swore I would never end up like him, how do I express this concern to her, I love her with all my heart but I’m afraid of been the father I despise, She’s everything to me, I just don’t know what to do Please help!

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Answer #1

look every1 is their own person not because he’s your dad means u’ll be anything like him he already have the determination that you wont allow urself to b anything like your dad as you know what thats like and you wudnt want your child feeling the same way about you keep trusting your instints that your nothing like him,u 2 are in a relationship you support each other allow her to b there for you talk it over if you feel like you need to think about it some tell her if not she may feel neglected are that your loosing interest and if you 2 love each other that much u’ll work it out

Answer #2

The fact that your thinking so hard about it and worrying that you’ll be like your father shows that you care and if you really love her there shouldn’t be a reason to you being like your father it seems like your nothing like him because you wanna do right by her and your future child. That you 2 are financially stable at this time means a lot 2 because a lot of couples break up because they’re not financially stable. The best thing you can do is do your best to not be like your father. Just tell her your scared talk to her about it and you 2 should be able to work it out.

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