Like in school pretty much every grade I had a best friend or a group of friends. I still talk to some of my older ones. But h.s. pretty much gave me a reality check so I couldn't trust anyone. You know from being betrayed. This includes dating too. But now I am 21 and I stopped talking to pretty much everyone. Like hanging out, we still but I never want to see them. At least not them I am feeling pretty lonely these days. I don't usually feel like this. Lonely, bored and I just want to go out but you know I don't have my friends anymore. But how am i supposed to talk to people and make friends, I can't trust anyone? I have never had a problem about making friends except for these days if I meet someone I immediately become aware of them. I also don't have a lot of places to go meet people anymore.
So please help me! Any advice at all. Just answer me. :)
You are doing good and willing for change.that's great and you are much more confident than the last time on your other question i answered.i really hope good things for you.
Back to your recent question that you want to make friends but you get that feeling a remind from past betrayels and bad things happening.it happens one can be nervous for a change in daily life.you have been alone for a time and i dont blame you for not trusting people.
Listen you have been through hard time but it's time you decided for a change.thats huge and am happy for you,but you shouldnt be so nervous while meeting new people.but i also agree that trust must be earned it can't be just given in hand right ? :).your neightbours or some old friends that did not betray you.or some people that you dont talk to.just pop up and say hi.and it can go slowly day by day from there.or communicate more with your cousins and make new friends around,there's no special way.just dont be afraid of people.because remember you have finally decided for a change after long time.it needs guts to do it and you did it.you are doing right for you and appreciate your self more.am so happy for you and hope things good good for you.
And since you are on FunAdvice you can make new friends,not ones that you can watch movie with though but online friendships are good too and there are like tons of nice people.good luck!! and hope to hear from you soon!! :)
I have people who say they r my friends and then go behind my back and tlk about me so once I find out they r tlking about me I kinda just get rid of them but there are some really good people who r really looking to make friends my advice would be to try and get in touch with so of the people who u know u used to trust and u just don't know y u stopped tlkin and see if they would like to go to the movies or something fun or if ur into going to the bar see if they would like to go with u . Hope I helped a little
All I can think to say is that u might b able to find some way to get around not bein able to trust people and if u can do it long enough u might just find a really great friend tht can eventually help u with bein able to trust people.
. maybe I helped sorry if I didnt
Awh that's so sweet of you :).am always on the question board so i always will be here when you ask question or need advice :).i really love to help in anyway i can thank you :)
Steven you are great. I love it when you answer my questions. If ya ever need you answered. . . :)