Why are my friends leaving me out?

I know, It is all drama but I need advice on how to try to be their friend. It’s hard to break it off when we’ve been like sisters the past few years.

You know what happens is sometimes you drift and your interests change to a degree. This happens all the time especially when you move to new schools. or when you leave for college…we gradually evolve and make new acquaintances. Sometimes it’s nothing within you per say, it just could be something is happening in their own lives causing them to not be as close anymore, and plus at your at that age things and circumstances do tend to change on a dime. If it’s a friendship you really want to hang on to, then sit with this person and express your concerns, then at least you can say that you made the effort to save this friendship.

Thanks!

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just tell her how ur feeling about the whole thing. why don’t you try to be more friends with the girl that got jealous of you as well then it might make things a little easier. people change and if your best friend is as close as you said she is then I’m sure she wouldn’t want to loose you either she might just be trying our new experiences with other people.

Thanks, that’s a great idea I know my best friend Lauren doesn’t want to loose me, she’s told me, one time I went on vacation and didn’t call her for two days because the reception wasn’t great and she called me all freaked out. So I’m not worried about us two. I am worried because girl who’s jealous, she is trying to take over the whole group instead of being all together as one like we were before. Thank you so much you were the best answer so far!!!!!!!!!

As we mature we tend to develop new likes and interests, it’s always common for things to change when school starts again after the long summer break, try being nice to her even when she’s showing attitude if she starts being nasty to u and your friends tolerate that then i’ll say find new friends. No one is supposed to control anyone in a group or be mean to anyone, everyones supposed to get along, last time i checked u said u all used to be like sisters. If u’re uncomfortable just let ur best friend know how u feel, if u continue to feel weird just find friends that are gonna appreciate and value you

thanx, just happy I could help being in the same kinda of thing as you but it didn’t work out as well. so it’s just good to see another have a better fighing chance n.n

this is baby drama. They all need to grow up. There is no leader of the pack. You all should be treated the same way. And no one should favor anyone more. But since she’s suposively your best friend. She needs to stick up for you as well. But since the sitch. is this, They all need to muture. sounds like your muture enough to go into a new group who has the same common intrests you do. I know your probably upset when you read this, but you would be a lot happier wit surrounding yourself with different people.

Thank you so much, at first I was upset about the whole situation but I started to feel like “saving the group” wasn’t worth it anymore if I was going to be treated that way. I told my best friend how I felt and she freaked out because she didn’t want to lose me as a friend, after I confronted her with a little more force she finally took my side and we confronted the group and things are much better now!

girls are bitches. they really are. but the best thing to do is just ignore it, if they know they are getting to you they’ll do it even more, so just be yourself and if you really can’t handle it, just mention how you feel, and i they ignore that, they aren’t your real friends and you should try hanging out with other people!