Ok so im almost fourteen and i really like this boy, and i think he might like me back. So i want to ask my friend to ask him out for me. Im worried she will laugh because he isnt very cute (but he isnt ugly) and im worried she might tell people i like him! Should i ask her to ask him for me or ask should i him myself? if i should ask him myself what do i say? ( sometimes im quite shy and dont want to embaress myself) please help if you have any advice
If you really do like this boy, you need to ask him out yourself. You also need to stop caring about what others will think. Having others ask for you or being embarrassed about it makes it seem like you're not ready to be dating him at all. No one likes rejection, but when you like someone -- that's just a chance you take. You let him know how you feel, and then you ask. If he says no, you say okay and that's that. If he says yes, good. Don't ask him out if you're ashamed to be with him, though. That's not very fair to him. You shouldn't be with someone if you feel like you have to hide the fact that you like them. Or at least not in my opinion. Perhaps you need some time? Remember, there's no need to rush into a relationship if you're not ready for one.
thankyou so much i tink i will ask him myself! i just need to get some cofidence