What should i do to feel better about this situation about a mistake i made?

cuz i went to a party and kissed this guy and we use to like eachother a year ago but i wasnt ready for anything so i tried after to not show too much. but wen i kissed him it broughy bac so much feelings. but then my bff and another freind were talkn to him generally and he brought up how he couldnt belileve he kissed me like he was ashamed of it. i feel so embaressed cuz i kno for a fact he use to like me a year ago but like hes actin so ashamed that he kissed me so noww i feel like such a loser and i wish so badly i never kissed him. how can i not care cuz this is really bothering me.

Answer #1

say “fu*k you & smile :]

Answer #2

Talk to him about it……and if he’s not willing to talk about it maybe a conciler….or something…i hope i helped! :/

Answer #3

depends on the situation.

Answer #4

You could try talking to him about it, but that might make the situation worse (But than again it might be a big help. It depend son how he reacts) or simply try hard to let it go and move on. Sadlly, in life we all make mistakes and do things we regret, it happens to everyone. Some things we simply can’t fix and we are better to just try to learn from and then move on. I hope everything works out ffor you.

Answer #5

oops sorry. i didnt read the whole thinglike people said, you can just talk to him about it orrrrr you could try to get over it. if you cant get over it and you dont want to talk to him, i recommend talk to your lady friends. its always helped me:)

Answer #6

Now you cannot change whatever has happened. What you can do is face it, be strong without letting your embarrassment affect you, go talk to him. If nothing at all works let it go, this sounds easier to say than do, but be calm. Listen to your heart. Sit in a quiet place for a while listen to what your heart tells you and do it, don’t let the brain spoil your feelings. Heart is stronger than the brain at such times.

Answer #7

walk with your head high, look your best, feel confident, and flaunt what you got. that is the best revenge. goodluck! something similar has happened to me and i know it feels really awful :( it got my self confidence way down for at least a year, dont let that happen to you!

Answer #8

to be honest, i understand how you feel (even tho that never happend to me), just smile, because there other things you can be worrying about then one douche. = )

Answer #9

hahahahahaha

Answer #10

perhaps an act to throw boyfriend off and make you look good…wouldn’t sweat it songs movies and kisses are number one reason for those special memories

Answer #11

Well know that he kissed you because he wanted to kiss you. You were not putting a gun to his neck saying “ kiss me!” So just that should feel better. Also, talk to him let him know that if he is so ashamed why did he do it in the first place? Ignore, and when someone asks you, make sure to say that, that kiss was part of you and him.

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