Why do i feel so bad, after breaking up w/my bf becus he lies so much?

Answer #1

You probably miss him :( But it was right to break up with him if he lies. Even if somebody has hurt us, it will be hard to forget them if we knew them and trusted them for a long time. Get out of the house- Have a girls night! Have fun and try not to think about it. You deserve to have fun. It was HIM that lied, not you. :)

Answer #2

You probally just miss him ):

Answer #3

yeah &&nd 2maro is his bday ugh! “/

Answer #4

it depends on how long yall date never know you might be in love

Answer #5

2months!! not long but yeah….

Answer #6

or it might be you have strong feels and you can let go even he lies

Answer #7

Yeah,, thts what im thinking Is tht a bad thing??

Answer #8

no it okay depends on if he feel the same way just give it another 2-4 days n yall will be together again it happen 2 me

Answer #9

I really hope so bcus I wrote him this long letter on fb cus his fone is off and he hasnt replyed yet :9 and Im starting to think Tht the lies are something we cn work out !! if he feels the same way nw tho!!

Answer #10

maybe u can talk 2 him through one of his close friends or if u know where he hung out alot den just pretend u going there for somthing and when you see him walk up and talk but lies is something you can work out because everybody lies its normal just talk in a peaceful voice and work it out

Answer #11

Yeah thts what Im going to do… I just hope it all works out but wht really sucks is 2maro is his bday!! =/

Answer #12

wow make sure you are the 1st person 2 tell him happy birthday 2morrow sometimes it show that u still care for him but good luck thou

Answer #13

Thanks so much for all your help!!

Answer #14

your welcome

Answer #15

yu prolly still miss him and have feelings for him nothin to feel bad over cuz i had that same problem until i met my current bf

Answer #16

you’re just not used to not having him around…

Answer #17

you’re just not used to not having him around…

Answer #18

Just don’t think about it . Its hard but go out with some friends amd have a good time too get your mind off of him . :)

Answer #19

You probably loved him.Its not easy to break up with someone you truly cared for.Just please dont cry over somebody that wont cry over you.You did the right thing.You can have a liar of a boyfriend he has to be true to you and himself.But he failed to do that.There are other fish in the sea hun,after a couple days or weeks im sure you’ll be back to your normal self.

Answer #20

you proabally miss him i know how u feel girl its happenin 2 me right now but im still with him

Answer #21

ugh, bt i really wnt him back nw bt i just know its 2 late even tho its just bn 4days smh!

Answer #22

you probably really miss him, :( but you just need time to get over him (: then u should be fine

Answer #23

dont worry about it, if you broke up because he lies frequently or about serious causes then it was right to break up and it shouldnt be thought about or worried about, just relax and you can move on

Answer #24

A lot of it has to do with the disappointment. You trusted him and you had all these dreams for the two of you. You ask yourself how you could have misjudged someone so badly, someone so close to you, so dear to you. Its best to break the ropes and let go, knowing that you would not stop loving him, knowing that you would want to call him and make-up..but in the long run YOU DESERVE someone as true and as honest to you as your love to him…and if you wait and focus on yourself he will come round dear. Just be patient and look ahead.

Answer #25

you shouldn’t feel bad your doing the right thing. men need to be taught that they can’t lie to women.. it’s not right. do what you need to do for you right now!!! don’t take him back.. or if you plan on taking him back make him wait a couple of weeks.. and if he can’t then he isn’t worth it.. i bet in some way he might be trying to say he is sorry. but don’t fall for it.. he is not sorry or he wouldn’t have done it!!!

Answer #26

Hay hun u dont diserve a man that lies to u..u diserve better…..move onn♥♥

Answer #27

i went through the same thing.. lie after lie lol its a terrible tthing and you did the right thing to break up with him.. dont worry it will all get better… atleast you know what you want… =)

Answer #28

its neva 2 late if u rlly love him & want him go 2 him even tho he lies thats a bit hard my bf does that 2 but i get have 2 accept it or move but i cant listin 2 yur heart do wat is right 2 u =) i hope i help :) hope all goes well

Answer #29

You’re better off without the lies, the stress, and the drama. Most people feel bad when they’ve left someone they loved and you’re going to feel a tad empty, but it’s normal. To keep yourself upifted and in better spirits, remember that you are better off without him. If it helps, make a list of all the reasons why you needed to leave him and why its better for you. Hope you cheer up though!

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