Why is family mean and make you feel unwanted?

Well, some families can be difficult at the best of times and it seems you’re in one of those situations where you can’t seem to do anything right.

It’s not easy to deal with them, and there’s really no way to make them stop, but you can try and find ways to cope with it.

Just focus on your needs and try to avoid stepping on toes…the less you need to confront them, the less you’ll be pushed around.

I know it’s not a perfect solution, but it’s a temporary one - one day you’ll be able to finally move on with your life and the years you spent feeling bad about yourself will only help to develop your compassion for others and make you grow into a wonderful person.

your not useless or unwanted I know how you feel all you have to do is just in your head is think im above this and when you make your own family dont do tis to them.:) ;)I hope I helped

‘Families’ aren’t mean, but I guess you’re having trouble with yours.

Unless we know what brought on this idea, we can’t really help you figure it out.

o, I asked were my shirt was and then they sttarted yelling at me, they blam everything on me, they reck everything of mine, they dont do nothign when my older sister beat me up. :’’( they make me feel horrorble. like I’m useless and unwatend.

thts how my parents r.they favroite my brothers and then yell at me for every little thing!

What’s a famitly?

O.K. I have had this feeling a lot in my life, when I was younger I didn’t know what to do I just believed it all and I ried to end my life but that WAS WRONG…it only made things worse. The best thing to do is this… Take vitamine B’s drink lots of water,eat healthy, stay away from junk food (this will help your nerves)and “junky” friends that only point out negative (this will help your mind and heart). Know and understand that you are a created being…like everything else on this planet.Fill your life with people and things that are GOOD…look for someone that you see is listening to God and following what we all know in our conscience is the right thing to do. In other words seek out Jesus..He says that if you knock, He will open, if you seek, you will find, if you ask He will answer. Do NOT get caught up in the “religion” of it all, but really truely set your mind on finding the TRUTH and you WILL be set free, Jesus is the ONLY answer and He will bless you…watch and see He is faithful. …remember your family really does love you, but humans often will be nasty to those that feel most safe around…they are hurting too and that is why they are behaving this way. Do NOt take it personal, I know that you are experiencing a lot of pain, but really so are they and that is why this is going on. So love them and you will see that they will love you back ( it might not happen right away) but give it your best and you will see that it will melt their hearts. Think of the 10 Commandments and ask God to help you to keep them…He will do great and marvelous things in your life, like bring you THROUGH your trials in stead of letting them control you. Take care and God bless I will keep you in mind when I go before the Lord…