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How to get my Mother to stop making me feel so bad?

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I feel useless. My mother makes me feel so low it's unbeilable. It all started when we had a huge argument on holiday and ever since then she makes me feel terrible. She'll bring up the past, she'll scream at me when im not doing or saying anything to her. My sister gets away with murder in my house and it makes me want to pull my hair out. She'll call me names like 'fat bastard' and she'll tell me to find a flat and move out because no one wants me here, she'll bring up other peoples children in our conversation saying she wished she had their daughter and not me. But the worst is when she brings up my Nan that passed away 3 years a go, knowing how much I woreshiped the ground my nan walked on saying that when she was ill I done nothing for her, and considering I was only 12-13 at the time I done everything I could for my Nan and it makes me cry everytime she brings her up in arguments. Also my mother was ill a few days a go. I done everything I could to so help her in the house like washing and dishes, and a few minutes after she'll treat me like dirt. She has always said that she'd choose my step dad over me anyday. I've just finished my job and im in college and work in a salon on a friday, and she'll keep going onto me saying that I've never worked and I should get a job etc.

It makes me feel so useless it's horrible and makes me so sad.

But I dont know what to do. :'(