Like, lets say you lose your virginity to some random guy and didn't tell him that you were a virgin beforehand. Would guys usually mind?
I am somewhat embarrassed of being a virgin, I've been to third base but don't continue onto sex because I don't want the person knowing that I'm a virgin. I don't know if my hymen is broken either because I've never fingered myself or used tampons.
well first of all the random guy part of your question bothers me. Why would you want to lose your virginity to just some random guy?
Also you should really tell the guy, he could hurt you a lot if he doesn't know its your first time.
You should tell the guy because if he doesn't know he could really hurt you, and tampons wont break you hymen, I used them before I had sex. You shouldn't be embarassed about being a virgin, its a good thing
Thanks for the replies. I've heard from a couple of people that your hymen can break if you've used them. And sorry, I wouldn't lose it to a random guy; I only used that as an example.
