Ok, well my boy friend wants to finger me, well he knows I'm a virgin, how does he finger me when I am a virgin???
I believe I should not have sex till we are married, but my friend said that this is less innocent than sex. So yeah...
There's no different way to finger someone because they're a virgin. He'd do it the same way as he would if you werent a virgin. I don't see how it's more or less innocent than sex, really. Well, I guess you couldn't contract a disease or get pregnant if he fingers you, as you could if you had sex, so it seems to me that it would be more innocent in a way.
It's not any different. But you might want to tell him to be gentle and to not go as deep. Well, hope it helps;)
its the same as fingering u if u wasnt a virgin go for it girl :D its not that bad xx