How do I deal with my boyfriend(three years together) being out of high school and me only being a junior?

No. But I’m still in high school and he isn’t. He is going to FSU to college.

First thing you want to do, is to remind yourself exactly how much he means to you. You might not be able to see him everyday in school, but he can always come over after school. Or, if hes in college, then he could visit on the weekends. Keep in touch by playful texting, that keeps the relationship interesting. Call him as much as you can. Sending letters, in my opinion, is very romantic. Just little things to help keep the relationship strong until you graduate yourself.

So very true. But right now I think he is more in love with baseball.

personally i dont see why that would be a problem…your together for 3 years…you have a mutual trust going on…so there really shouldnt be any concern with that…unless…. there are trust issues :(

i mean seriously, if there is a mutual love, respect honor & trust going on it doesnt matter if he is college, or in Timbuktu…there will still be a mutual understanding there again unless there is some cause as to why there wouldnt be a mutual trust thing…since you are together already for 3 years…(o,0)

Oh, pish posh. That is how boys are. Theyre sport is what keeps them enterained. This is his passion, and im sure he cares about you very much. Remember to respect your parents goals in life, and to be there for them always!

You’ve been with him for 3 years which means a lot of time together. That’s something that you are used to. Him going off to college, being apart … that’s a new experience, one you haven’t faced yet so it’s only normal to feel anxious. How can you deal with it? There isn’t a specific way to deal with it, but you could treat it like any other change you’ve faced and handled before. All I can say is that it’s going to take a lot of patience and trust from the both of you and if you got that then you have nothing to worry about.

True! I’m just scared of him going away I guess.

Yea I just have to treat it like one big week long vacation.

that is natural sweetie…we tend to worry about the ones we love…especially when they have to go away for a while especially to college…no more just meeting up to grab a cup of coffee when you feel like getting a hug…it’s natural…I so know what you mean.
But, look at it from a different prospective…they say far from sight, close at heart! it will make you guys really appreciate being together…so when there are even the smallest vacations or holidays & he gets to come home, the visit will be that much sweeter…its kind of like a mini test…if can stick it out through thick & thin then college…you guys will be much more solid in the future!(if you get what I mean) Hope this helped. ♥

It really did! A lot! Thanks.!

no prob, glad I could help!

How you said up their ^ he is more in love with baseball, thats how my boyfriend is, but with football! And he’s a junior and I am a freshhman. This past football season University of South Carolina offered him a scholarship, if he finished his Jr. year and graduated early this summer. We argued and fought about it so much and so did him and his mother, we were against it, but then we sat down and talked, he is gonna be home every other weekend and is only an hour away, and this is his dream so he is going to do it. Also, have enough trust in your relationship to know that he is going to love you weather you are with him 24/7 or not. I am sure he will come home to see family, and you.! I hope this helps and everything works out!

Thanks but me and Kaleb aren’t together anymore