Dad trouble

My dad is being difficult like extremely. He wont let me go to a guys house at all. Even when theres parents. Hes paranoid that I will end up like my mom or gma, getting pregnant at an early age. He shud trust me tho, I get all as and I meet his standards, even my stepmom ahs no prob with me going. its kinda making it hard 2 hang out with my friends considering 2/3 of them are guys. Help?

Answer #1

your dad is just being protective of you because of how guys are. if you ask the question what do you mean how guys are? then maybe your dad is right in not letting you go over to a boy’s house no matter how much parental supervision there is. most guys your age are all about trying to pull something because curiosity is bound to come into the picture. your dad really isn’t over-reacting. he is just protecting his little girl. no matter how old you think you are and how much you think he should trust you, you have to think about that your dad was once a guy around your age so he knows from past experiences of either being sexually curious or having friends that were. most guys from now until you get older will say or do just about anything they can to try to get in your pants. sorry to break it to you, but, your dad does seem to know what could happen so maybe you should just say thankyou to your father for looking out for you and trying to protect you from something that could possibly happen. if you think he is being overly paranoid maybe he has a good reason for it. I think, however, that your dad is being a good father. just a point of view. and yes I do have kids. I’m also young enough to remember how much guys would try to say everything they could, even, I love you, to get their way with a girl who didn’t understand things better and was a bit naive. just saying is all.

Answer #2

Yeah, all a father wants is to protect his daughter from the dangers of the world. I’m sure he trusts you, its them he doesnt trust.

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