How can I get away from my crazy dad?

Like he gets mad over nothing.like if nothing happened he just gets mad out of no where and starts ignoring everybody like a child.im afraid like he is gonna call the police on me and lie and say i did something when i didn’t even do anything.I just don’t know.My mom can’t get a divorce because she doesn’t have the money or a job and it’s just horrible here in this house.we aren’t bringing in any therapists of any sort or counselors.been there done that not a good experience.i just need help.like im fourteen and i need to get a job so i can afford stuff i need/want.i don’t know anymore :( like there is always drama one way or another and i’ve just about had it.I can’t move in with anybody either.

Answer #1

If you have a relative, like aunt or uncle, you can tell them our problem with the hope that they will allow you to stay with them. in any situation when he gets mad, i suggest you to remain calm, do not talk back or anything that might drive him really crazy. Keep a save distance just in case he lose his mind and starts beating you. if going to your room is fine with him, you better stay in your bed room. At anytime when he is not around, tell your mother how you really feel about your dad. Put 911 in your speed dial, just in case.

Answer #2

well i kinda have the some situation you are in and i generally try to stay away from my dad as much as possible by listening to music, hanging with friends after school for as long as possible making sure i keep a safe distance. and stay in my room and find stuff to do. and the only problem being this age is there really isn’t much more you can do unless there is someone willing to let you stay with them you just need to hold on and just look forward to when you can move and things like that it tends to take away my fear. i hope this helps

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