When I first started at my last job, everyone talked to me but Carla. She didn’t wanna be my friend and never liked me right from the start. I can’t bear it, so I begged and tried to pay her $$$, which she turned down. They called corporate on me but luckily for me, all the higher-ups did was put me on a different shift from Carla. Still, I needed an anger outlet, so I treated other coworkers like shyt, esp the people Carla DID like. I basically verbally attacked them regularly. I got written up for that and then flicked off my boss for writing me up. Luckily, she didn’t see the finger. I also stared at Carla on my days off and got told to leave the building, which I did…1 hour later. But really, I just desperately want her to talk to me. Finally, I found out Carla added everyone on FB but me, so I screamed at my boss in front of customers. They suspended me 2 weeks. I returned to work to on-call hours and ostracism, so I quit 3 weeks later. I spent 13 months total on that job.
Thing is, Carla hurt me. I remember pleading w/ my boss on FB to make Carla like me. Also, whenever Carla snubbed me, I reported it to the boss, who said to let it go. (For instance, Carla won’t sit at my table, etc.) I also ripped buttons off Andrea’s coat bc Carla’s her friend and not mine (no one found out.) I just need everyone to like me. Carla used to hate Jane for a while until Jane accidentally made coffee wrong and burned ppl. Carla thought it was funny and they were firends. I purposely made coffee wrong, burned myslef and Carla hated me even more.
Recently, she bought xmas presents for 2 people at her work. How come she likes them and not me? Hell, she didn't even accept my christmas present last year! I'm so glad I treated those 2 ppl like shyt while i worked there.
I'm not going to sugar code this for you: You got issues! Simple as that. You need to understand that not everyone is going to like you and that's fine. You reached out to her on several occasions to no avail. So please, just let it go.
I agree with Almira, there is seriously something wrong with you and I feel sorry for the people in your life that have to put up with that.
wtf is wrong with u man? are you in love with this carla. u sound like a creepy atalker chick. i would be afraid and not talk to you either
I'm not in love with her. I just wanna be friends XD. And I'm a girl.
Why is it SO important to you to be friends with her?
