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I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years (3yrs in August), we live together and have a house. He has horrible jealously issues and I have been patient with him but now it seems to be making me pull away. Every time I come home, he always has questions about guys that I may have talked to you or even seen! He always says he's joking but I know better than that. I have never given him any reason to think I would cheat on him, he actually cheated on me in the early months of our relationship! I've been working at finishing my degree so he pays for almost everything that my part time job can't. He always uses that against me, it seems he enjoys the control he has over me. We moved away from my home together and I am feeling trapped and lost, I have no resources here and no money. I know that if I wanted to I couldn't leave because I have no where to go and no ability to support myself. We have been fighting like crazy and they are really intense fights almost every day! I don't want to have sex anymore and I feel a lot of hate and anger towards him lately. I need advice on what to do and how to get out of this potentially toxic relationship!!!