Can they make me move when I'm almost 18?

actually there are no jobs here where I live there are only 1000 people here, and not enough jobs, and every job he gets he gets laid off because there are to many workers

no definatly not, its just that, i told them i am pregnant, and there are upset about it, and all of a sudden being mean to my boyfriend, about not having a job. My boyfriend treats me better than anyone else ever did and will… but thanks for being concerned!

I think they are just trying to look out for you thats all. Your lucky that you have someone who cares.

Dear jay_007, No, you have been on your own since 15. I’m not sure why they would want you to move back? Is your boyfriend abusive? Do they feel you are in danger? Sue…good luck

Dear jay_007, Your parents cannot assume responsibility for the baby since you do not live with them. If you moved back they would be until you were 18. If your boyfriend does not have a job and you are pregnant…then he’d best get out and get one. It is very expensive to raise a child and unless he has a disability then there is no excuse why he isn’t working especially there are tons of jobs. I understand your parents concern for this baby. Show them you are mature and show them you’ve made the right choices by having a good financial situation and a loving home for your child. Sue…good luck

They are probably just upset with him, because he is not working. They know by experience how much it will take to take care of this baby, and they probably think that he will not rise to the occasion, to take his responsibilities seriously. I hope for your sake and the sake of the baby that he will. It is not right, if he does not. It is good that he is good to you, but, he simply must do the right thing now, by going to work, and earning what you are going to need.

I would assume that if your mother decided to legally attempt to somehow have you brought back into her home, it would take months for her to get that going. Just wait it out, 18 is just around the corner. But it sounds to me as though, behind your mothers rough outer exterior, some part of her must want to reach out and be a part of your childs life (if shes wanting you to come back all of a sudden). Your a grown woman now, do whats best for your child in your own judgment. Good luck to you.