What should I do if all of my brothers hate?

because they have hated me ever sense i’ve changed and lately i’ve changed alot and do why they may hate me?

Answer #1

I don’t think they hate you, I think it was easier for them the way you were before. They may not feel good about themselves so they take it out on you

Answer #2

yeah but my brother matt gets so aggressive with me i sometimes he gets in to a physical fight with me

Answer #3

Why are your parent let him abuse you that way? It against the law where I live. If siblings are physically abuseing, the parents can get into trouble

Answer #4

well my mom says that she is depressed and my brother matt is angry all the time at me and my brother zach he is ok to me sometimes but mostly rude and mean also my brother michael just ignores me

Answer #5

Depending on how you’ve changed, it might be a result of them not being able to cope with the changes you are making. As they say, people don’t like change.

Your best bet would be to try and talk to them about it and possibly explain why you’ve been changing so much. If this doesn’t help, then don’t feel bad- it’s your life and you can do whatever you want with it.

Seeking counceling is also an option, although I’m unsure if your brothers would go for that.

Answer #6

I would be talking with your mother about it, and tell her you will have to take action urself if she doesn’t make it stop. NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO ABUSE ANYONE IN ANYWAY, YOU SHOULDN’T HAVE TO TOLERATE THAT BEHAVIOR. Is thr a another family member you cud talk to about it and maybe have them talk with her

Answer #7

I have to agree completely with imlonely here on this one. Idc who the person is your mother, father, sister, brother, cousin, grandmother or the fckn neighbor’s kids….No one & I mean no one has the right to abuse anyone under any circumstances. Changes in life arent always going to be appreciated by others, we do them because we want or feel that we need to. If they feel like it doesnt suit them …tough…that is life, we dont always like it when others change…it takes a bit if getting used to & then we get over it. if they cant & feel the need to take out their aggression on to you I would ignore them & walk away. If they arent speaking to you then that’s on them…one day they will learn to regret it because they are acting like a bunch of a-holes. There will be a day when they try to ask you something & you wont answer & they will get p!ssed off sh!tless, and when they say hey I am fckn talking to you you rude little spoiled brat, then you can say til now you had the pleasure of ignoring me…keep on doing what you do best as I do what is best for me & walk away…dont even giv them the time or chance to respond. That is when they will realize that they treated you wrong & will have to find a way to deal with it on their time, NOT YOURS! Lift your head up standing tall & proud & as you do what you need to do to move on with your life. You dont need people like that in your life, not as friends nor as siblings…You deserve to be treated with kindness & mutual respect…

Answer #8

Love outweighs hate ALWAYS. We cannot change the view of others , but we can keep the good ones we have.

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