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I always try to be nice to my brother but he seems to hate me...he even hates my parents...he is jealous of me...I tried a lota times to make him understand but he..in return...have da same answer ' shut up loser get lost'...
My bro is hundred times stronger than my father and he tries to beat my dad when he gets insulted by dadi...
I hate my bro for these but at da same time I pity him..I feel for him...even my paretns have so much sympathy and affection for him...they gave their life for him...but he doesnt understand...wihtout us there wud be noone to help him in anything...
I ahet my bro for the person he is...he hates me too...but I want him to talk to me...abt any subject and act normal with me...he hates me because I used to tease him a lot when we wer small...
please advice
Dear unknowngod, If your brother is putting hands on your father, you, mother anyone he has a huge problem and needs professional help. Advise your parents to get him counselling and for the rest of you too to help with understanding his behaviours. Without knowing any history we can surmise that your brother is very angry at something and feels disrespected and maybe unloved. I know it is hard not to take it personally but it isn't you he hates there is something else and he is taking it out on you because he feels safe doing so. Until your family finds the underlying problem there won't be much change. Sue...good luck
well maybe it's like yall get treated differant boys always get treated differ from girl,maybe you need to talk to your parents about it so yall can have a group meeting and you could get the chance to see whats really wrong with him, and just tell him you love him, so yall can work it out.
umm... I thinkk yerr brotheerr is goinn throughh puberttyyy a weirddish one
and justt leavee himm alonee thatss whatt I doo I meann dont followw himm and leavee him alone and mayybee he will likee yuhh
butt MAYBEE
thinkk of a positive itss a maybee
gooddd luckk:D
my brother does the same thing itsss so anoyying like if I try and ask him he wants some brownies he will say they taste like s*** so just leave him alone and give him the silent treatment when he wants somthing
Looks as if you answered your own question - you stated: '...he hates me coz i used to tease him a lot wen we wer small...'
I hope things will change soon for the better, good luck !!
