how can my boyfriends mom convince my mom to let me to go to texas with them?

like to live? or vacation?

Vacation.

oh haha that shouldn’t be too hard. just like bring it up with your parents. talk to them about it and all. shouldn’t be too hard unless you have really strict parents

My dad wants me to go, just my mom is like freaking out, My boyfriends mom really wants me to go and she is talking to my mom tonight about it because we leave the 22nd. She thinks im two young. i am very responible. She lets me do whatever i want half of the time. Ya know? what should i tell his mom to say to my mom?

that they’ll be there and all and that they aren’t guna let you to go out like crazy. even tho im sre you and ur bf will go out somewhere by yourselves your mom doesn’t need to know that. and if it fails with your mom go around her, go to your dad, and be daddy’s little girl and get permission to go haha

A plan always helps. For example, we’re planning on leaving for x amount of days. These are the people who are going. We will be living in x place. These are the people we will be in contact with. These are the sleeping arrangements. This is what we plan on doing on day 1, day 2, day 3, day x. They will be constantly supervised. These are contact numbers for everyone on the trip as well as the place we will be staying. Your daughter will be able contact you through this method. Etc, etc etc. Mothers go through a 1000 what if scenarios. Knowing someone has covered all the bases makes them feel better. It wont guarantee anything. But I know I’d feel a lot better if someone was taking my concerns very seriously.

It may depend on how long you’ve known and been going out with him and what kind of track record you have with this guy…If it’s all clean, try bringing that up to your mom and assure her you won’t be doing anything bad … Just make sure to keep your promises no matter how hard it may be. That’s how you earn trust and respect from parents.

Make sure your bfs mom tells your mom everything she’d want to hear. Ie: No sleeping together, parental supervision all the time, etc… (even if it may not be true, lol).

ha yeah i know. ill tell her that thanks!