Should I try to get my boyfriend to stop smoking weed?

You can’t make someone do something, it just dosent happen tha way, if he wants to stop he will stop, if he doesn’t then he won’t. You can tell him you would like him to stop, or explain to him all the bad this is doing to him and everything, but at then end its his choice, you will uave to respect it. At tue end you might even ejd up wastijg your time, but at least know you did your part.

You can try, but you have to prepare yourself for disappointment. I tried getting my ex to stop, & he said he would stop for me (obviously, a lie) & he told my best friend about errything he was doing behind my back & it hurt most because i wasn’t prepared for disappointment. Heads up. :3

i dont think you should bother my ex is very close to me but he hated that every girl he dated would do that personally once i told him it was either me or the weed and we didnt talk for about two days then we started again and he told me he couldnt stop somethings need to happen on their own

Yes, smoking in any form is damaging to his healthy. Regardless of whether it was weed or not. If you want him to live long and healthy you should at least talk to him about it.

if you know you can and he listens then ya. or if you guys are reallly close and listen to w.e. you guys tell eachother why not try:)

Do what you feel best. If he wants to give it up he will but make sure he wants to give up. If he gives up because you want him to he may resent you for it.

dump his bum self and get a boyfriend that doesn’t smoke weed.

hmmm if this so called BF loves u and actually cares about u like a man should love a women first of all he should do want makes u happy or stop doing things u dont like. by this i dont mean control every aspect of his life but really smoking weed is one of those things were its either u stop or we are done type of deals. 2nd he should listen to u and hear u out. im sure u tell him its bad and how it ruins his life(i hope) try just talking to him and tell him that hes only shortening his own life. Also if he does it to hide from problems or just makes him feel good tell him hes waiting his life cause hes just covering up his problems or giving himself false happiness.

i meant waisting his life

well personally I think it is worth a try but if he has being smoking it for a while then it will be harder cause, the person who is smoking it has to want to give it up it cant just be your choice but give it a shoot and see how it goes but like ‘imloney’ said if he doesnt just let him be then cause it is hard to give it up

You can Suggest it but really think to yourself if it bothers you. As an X smoker, i can tell you that most people ask you to stop because they cant themselves. Don’t believe me? You wont be asking this if you live in Amsterdam. But you have to respect your own rules as well as he. Be strong and decide what you really can and cannot tolerate. Remember it could be worse and it could be better.

honestly you should try. not only for the good of your relationship, but also for himself. if he doesnt give up after you take the nice route, give him an ultimatum: you or the weed. but say youll help him he he chooses you. if he chooses the weed then obviously you werent that important to him, and you should be happy you found out.

I smoke weed and seriously dont say anythin. If anything you can ask him if he wants to quit anad if he says yes then help him. But honestly dont. As a smoker of the pot <3 people telling you to quit is annoying and they will get sick of you and would hate seeing/talkin to u if u keep bringing it up on how bad it is etc. Dont its a bad idea.

Burn that weed. Pass that blunt. Smoke another bowl. <3 <3

honestly i was trying to make my boyfriend stop smoking weed too! before he would smoke everyday whenever he had a chance. you have no idea how mad ill be even before we got together! -.- you cant make him stop,because thats him. & you CANT use the line” if you really love me, you’ll stop smoking bud” but just have a talk with him. & tell him that ur not trying to make him stop so he wont have fun,that your doing it for himself,like for him to have a better life,cause when u smoke weed,u just get dumb & laugh for anything(chill xD) but idk. just talk to him and tell me to cut it down liddo by liddo. i guess you should just let him know why you dont like him doing that & he should hear.& yeah. does he smoke a lot ?

if u dont like it then yeah and if he wont quit then either deal with it or break up

If you ask mee weed isnt that bad.. If you dont aprove of it though you need to tell him & depending on how old you are an how long youve been together,if you think youve been together long enough & have a strong an stable relationship The best thing to do is talk to him about it an suport him..but if you strongly dislike the weed thing an he wont quit u cant change him,this is something hell have to do on his own.You would most likely have to give up on the relationship because it’ll be one thing u can never change an something he wont wanna quit..but I say if hes doing it for fun everynow an then dont even bother,you only live one lifee,why play it by the rule’s?[:

i was in the same situation but it really isn’t worth it to try and get them to stop because they have to do it on there own.

Hell no, and worrying about it isnt going to help. Maybe you should smoke some.

Smoking weed does not make you a “bum” or stupid.

if you really want him too..like tell him your concerns and how you feel :)

no… let him do what he wants. u cant just make people change cuz if they do change n they didnt really want to they’ll resent u for it