How do you get your boyfriend to stop smoking?

Something you should learn that will save you a lot of heartache for the rest of your life… You cannot change another person. You can only change yourself… So either you say you will not accept those things (and then dump him if he refuses to comply), or you deal with it… But you cannot change someone else’s behavior…

Thanks for your replys…but the only thing is apparently, as my friends say, he treats me really badly. I mean…and like. I dont know, I think he does. Well..I knoww he treats me bad. And he always says he’ll quit but never gets to it…Like. My friends want me to dumpp him. I admit he’s a total douche but hes so sweet when he wants to.

But I have other choices if I dump him…ha, his friends called rebound on me lol

I’m going to try and explain some very basic psychology. Behavior is a result of conditioning… As long as you continue to reward bad behavior (you staying with him is a reward in itself) that bad behavior will never end… think of the mother who goes shopping with her kid and everytime the kid cries, she buys the kid something… now what’s the kid going to do everytime they go out? the kids going to cry… the only way to stop the kid is for the mother to change what she’s doing… she needs to stop rewarding the kid for bad behavior… do you see what I’m saying? there’s no way for the mother to change the child… all the mother can do is change what she does and how she acts, and that will change how the kid acts… hopefully… think about it… do you deserve to be treated badly? even if he is sweet some of the time, arent you worth more? dont you deserve respect and good treatment all the time? you just have to demand that…