my sister partner anyways has to say something when ever im going out or if he finds out im doing something im sick of it! i dont want to say something back cause he makes my sister happy but im getting close to the point of snapping. its got to the point i dont even want to be in my own home anymore ( him, my sister n family live with us ) i just dont know what to do anymore :(
I agree with majority of others here..Say something to him,but make sure you have someone else standing by so if things go "south" you can bail..He has no right putting his nose in your business,talking with your sister may or may not go well,if she's happy with him she may choose his side and not your side..Although blood is thicker than water..When you do confront him make sure you have someone listening to the conversation as it could get 'twisted' by him saying more than he should..Just stand up to him and basically tell him to you aren't going to listen to his b.s...He is not your father and doesn't need to know a darn thing..*Happened to me sweetie..I got upset and asked the person if they wanted to know how many times I went to the bathroom that day*..this person was trying to keep tabs on me:He finally shut the heck up&left me alone*Good luck..
I would confront him infront of your sister about it, it may cause one heck of a scene but your voice should be heard, hes not your dad! So u need to let him know, if he tells u not to do something but u know u can, do it anyway and if he places his hands on u. Law suit!! Seriously ur a human being and u need to be treated like one not some kind of pet!! :)
You need to say something. Tell him that he makes you angry and tell him you aren't his responsibility. He could just be trying to look out for you though. If you don't say anything about the way he bothers you he will keep doing it...
you really just hve to ignore him or tell him to shut up or answer everything he asks which is just bs...you don't have to answer to him at all
Talk to your sister, maybe she'll talk to him about it. If not, ask him why. You need to say something.