My biggest regret...would prob be to keep going back to a guy over the course of 5 years trying to make a relationship work with this specific guy, that he just kept dragging me along. & saying no to some great guys along the way that have their whole lifes figured out awesome job and are on the verge of getting enganged soon, lucky girls they are. Why I couldn't let go of that one guy & see it sooner... Always the first love. & now seeing what I could of had with these 2 other great guys, the one which is now an accountant... Really regret not giving these all guys a chance and being stuck on my ex...dumb!
A very good question. A complicated one too. There are a few, but the biggest is allowing a very beautiful woman to get into my head once and manipulate me several years ago. There are some very powerful sociopathic, narcistic, controlling, irresistable, very smooth yet demonic people out there (both men and women). I can't believe it happened but it did and the consequenceses were stellar. We read about it and watch (real life) scary movies about it, but don't see it as reality until it "really happens" to us. I survived it. Be careful out there folks.
Im not going to say how I have no regrets and all that stuff, i mean yeah i learned from them but still i think pretty much everyone has a regret or two.
Mine is wishing I was more confident around my friends and was more myself and not so distant in communication. Actually its still something Im batteling with but either way its a regret.
I really don't have many cause i believe everything we do is for a reason and we learn from it. But one i can recall is leaving my grandma in the hospital for 15mins to get something to eat and as i was heading back to the hospital getting that call she passed.
Oh goodness, thats also a huge regret of mine. It brings tears to my eyes when I think of how i treated him, im just terribly ashamed.. Just makes me want to go hug him forever and ever when I think back on it now aha..
I'm only 14 so I haven't even really had the chance to make any really big "mistakes" or anything. But it would have to be:
-Losing touch with my blood sister.
-Not getting more into sports as a kid.
Not making an effort to get to know a guy that I used to have a huge crush on. I know I coulda dated him if I actually made an effort.
Now it's wayyyy too late. Gah.
My biggest regret is giving my dad a hard time over the years. Over the past year I have realized what I done and I try to make it up to him.
My brother was just in a similar relationship I think, he was dating someone with borderline personality disorder. She was... crazy.
Loosing my parents trust, over a guy that was not even worth it when I was 14 and to this day trying to get their trust back...
I regret never telling my nan how much I loved her and now much she meant to me.
not gettin phycological help when I needed to, I still need to though
Not bringing an umbrella with me before I went out...