is it embarassing to have big areolas I mean like bigger then a doorknob
I think it depends. Some people are comfortable with them, others aren't. It all depends on how a person sees them self.
That said, I do not think there's anything to be embarrassed about.
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Nobody can control the size of their auroras, so my answer is no.