why do i have a bad relationship with mah mom?

she said it like she sounded true oh plus add something to the timeline 13(ya i no)parents giving me away to a complete stranger when i’m fourteen aka marriage. shes my fiances parents are desperate and want me to marry the soon as possible and my parents agreed wtf?

Wow. They don’t even have enough respect for you to be able to choose your own lover? Wtf? If I were you I would be excited for the day to come when I have a job and enough money to move out.

Your parents are the people who raised you and while they deserve some respect and gratitude, some relationships are hard to repair when they didnt exactly show you much love or said things that you cant forgive. My fiances mother was miserable growing up, she had 4 kids, and married a man with 3. She hated her life and took it out on her children. My fiance was told that the placenta was more useful then him, that she should have got an abo.rtion and so on. He hated his mother until he got older and started to understand how miserable she was within herself, hes gone from hating her to pitying her and talks to her again.

the day before i move out im gonna say cuss words to them and say all i wanted to say these years. the next day i move out. the wedding day.. im gonna follow their orders but when the father asks me if i do on the altar my awenser..? NO

It may be the fact that you started to become tom girl or boy.. along those lines and maybe she thinks that a girl should look presentable as a girl and not a boy. Im not saying that its a bad choice to look like a guy because i also wear very casual clothes… she should respect your choices of your look and you should follow your own path of who you want to be.

the reason why your sister is taking your mothers side is because she may feel jealous if you were first born or she wants to be the favorite child and does everything your mother says( kinda like a clone)

you should have a right to say what you want to do in your life even if that means marriage at 14. if you strongly dont want to get married i suggest court, lawyer.. something (i know thats a little extreme but if your up for it, consider it) your life shouldnt be controlled forever.

im sorry that you live in a hell hole right now but you have to be strong and stand up for your self. I hope some shred of happiness comes your way and some lucky guy will treat you right (in the future of course)

best wishes and good luck i hope this helps

mah sis is first im second

shes probably just jealous that your getting all this attention with your so called problems