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my mom gets outta jail on the 12th . shes stayign with us..supposedly.. is it bad if i honestly dont want her here?
There's nothing wrong with feeling the way you do about it (as everyone has agreed). If you know it's going to happen anyway and there's nothing to be done about it, try to accept it as graciously as you can instead of blaming her for it. Why make your time with her there go by any more slowly and painfully than it has to? I don't really know anything about your relationship with your mom, but I'm going to guess that however hard it is, it's probably not because she's really out to get you.
I don't think it's bad for you to have those sentiments. I guess it would be natural for you to be angry at your mom. Whatever she did to get in jail in the first place - it has also had an impact on your life. And she shouldn't have done it. A child should be able to rely on their parents, to trust that they do the right thing and to trust that they'll be there for you. You mother has ruined that trust. It would be totally natural for you to be disappointed about her.
i understand how u feel my dad was in jail 4 about six years he missed most of my childhood ..so dont feel bad its how u feel just talk to her about how u feel.. just dont let it turn u bitter because thats no way to live believe me i know :)
Everyone agrees on no, and so do I. I think if you're uncomfortable you should say so. -shrug- Your opinion counts.
she didnt do anything this time. she took the charges for someone else. but i still dont want er here
I don't think it's bad at all. It's completely understandable, imo.
im not.lol he was nvr involved in my life. till now >.<
i dont think its bad, because its how you feel
lol my dad missed ALL of my childhood
ok well good luck with ur mom :)
really im srry :) may i ask y??
no its not bad