am I still consider a virgin if a something rele terrifying happend me[[rape]]?! and when my boyfriend wants 2 do stuff I chicken out...
Your boyfriend should understand why you dont want to have sex. Does he know you were raped? if not,you might want to tell him. if you cant trust him enough to tell him, then hes not worth having sex with in the first place.
Your not really considered a virgin if you were raped, because your hymen was most likely broken.
Your hymen is a thin membrane inside your vagina that stretches the first time you have sex,causing it to bleed.
if this was stretched when you were raped,then no,most people would say you are not a virgin.
does ur bf know u got raped? and if he dont i think u should sit down with him tell him and let him understand, if u lose him he wasent the one and find someone who will be there for u but sit him down tell him and tell him why u always chicken out and that you arent ready for doing anything and if you got raped at what ever age physicaly u arent a vigin but that doesnt mean anything in your mind if you believe you are a virgin then you are
Nio, being raped does not count as your first time because you forced to do it, and if you haven't told your boyfriend about being raped, you should. And if he really loves you he'll understand and wait until your ready to do things, and if you havent told an adult PLEASE TELL!!! and think about talking to a rape counsler as harley said. hope this helps hun
That same thing happened to me, I told my boyfriend about it 5 months into our relationship [when we started doing things] Even when that happens your a virgin in most everyone's eyes but tec. no. Just talk to your boyfriend about it, SO it doesn't make you uncomfortable.
Maybe a rape councellor would be a good idea to talk to first. They are experienced in this sort of thing.
No but if in your mind you think you are then yes
NO