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Am I being used

Okay from day one of my sistas life I raised her mom was in the hospital. Yesh she was dying.well I was just weeks from graduating and I was taking care of my new born sista and a 2 year old brother. My dad didnt do much when I was at school he slept only got up to change or feed her got kids fed then when I came home he went to work. Well now shes 3 and hes 5 and im still doing everything its bad if I had a job at this time I wouldnt be here but everything she is puttn me threw its stressn me out. Am I being used or am I ova reacting please help

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Answer #1

first I think people are making you do all the work get a vication and your not a babysita! 3 take care of your self and your health :)

Answer #2

wow, I don’t really know what to say. but you aren’t over reacting.

but kaira has some good advice though.

get them to take care of the kids because they are THEIR kids, you can help them, sure. but not take their job and responsibility as a parent.

Answer #3

you know what, tell them to take care of responsibilities. If you had enough, find a part time job, save up, graduate- move out when you got enough money in your pocket.

But until you have the cash, tell her you cannot always look after kids-they arent yours- FULL STOP- IT ISNT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY!!! So, study, earn lil cash, move out, till then just grow lil more patience… Best of luck..

Answer #4

ty both..

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