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Am I being unfair on him?

Why is it I am left home with the children while he goes away for weekends and a week at a time sometimes, is this fair for him to have a free spirit and me not though the kids aren’t his! does this matter? Should he have taken on a young girl with 3 kids, and still do what he wants?

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Answer #1

You have to be honest to him and yourself. It seems you would rather have a laid back homebody type. I say talk it over with him. If he is not what you want in a partner then it is best to find the right person for you. Never settle for less than what you want in life.

Answer #2

That’s fair enough I wanted them though why would a man come into my life telling me we are all a package and then go off and do what he wants do you think I should let him go so he can live his life I’m 26 and he is 43 he has raised his own it was his choice to be here but I feel guilty because he wants to be out all the time enjoying life with his mates so to give him full benefit of that should I let him go?

Answer #3

I am going to be honest. it is wonderful when a man takes on the responsibility of someone elses kids. but it is a rare thing. you choose to have children, he didnt. although staying away from home for an entire weekend and week at a time is too much in any relationship where you live with the other person. it all depends on your realationship, if you are not happy talk to him about it. but you cant put pressure on him to help raise your children.

Answer #4

I never pressure him bout my kids, I never mention them to him he don’t know I even feel like this

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