Should I be ashamed or proud that my fiance has slept with 3 other women and I've only been with him?

Well that depends on you, would sleeping with 2 other people really make a difference?

When it comes to relationships and sleeping with people, it’s not really about being “fair” or “even”. If you love him to death isn’t just sleeping with him enough? Of course just sleeping with one person is ok, that one person, when you love them, should be enough. There’s nothing wrong at all with being with one person at all. I, myself, have been with one person only and my partner and I both plan to keep it that way. He is more than enough for me so why would I want anyone else?

Is there a sense of envy to it because you do not share the uniqueness he shares with you? Maybe that’s why you feel this way. Perhaps you wanted to be his first too? If that’s so then I get how you feel but at the same time, you should also remember that you made this choice too. Knowing full well that he was with other girls before you.

Don’t worry, as others have said, it’s not out of the ordinary to only be with one guy. Just don’t let it bug you too much alright.

Girls are far more emotionally attached than guys….in the past, so put it in the past….only one is definitely nothing to be ashamed of….wish you every happiness !

You are a great gal and you deserve to be disappointed but is it jealousy thats talking? ITs unfair but its in the past unless you want to break this relationship, I would advice you to move on as such things will constantly eat you from within hence tough its difficult one has to move on !!