Help, advice needed!

Why i cant feel love? Even my family and my parent i hate, even if i say i love you i dont meant it. Its just a word to me.. Sometimes i fake loving people ao my friends dont think im a freak! O feel nothing. Thats the word nothing and empty is what i feel everyday.

Answer #1

Well, WHY don’t you love your family? What are your reasons?

Answer #2

Its not that i really hate them, i just feel nothing

Answer #3

Well what do you expect to feel? Warm fuzzy feelings in your heart?

Answer #4

Are you be sarcastic? Because its a series question.

Answer #5

i think you dont because maybe your parents arent very loving like they dont say it or show it but im not saying you dont love anyone cause you do you are human but maybe its just hard for you to say it like ik people who it takes them along time to say it because they werent shown it when they were little like from there parents.. or its just hard to say… or maybe your just going threw hard times like who knows i dont really know you

Answer #6

Well, the fact that this is bothering you means you must feel something. Guilt maybe? But at least you feel unlike a sociopath for example who feels no remorse for hurting others and can’t relate to other peoples feelings.

Love isn’t a feeling that can be “forced” it has to just happen to you or “grow” within you. Do you care about others? If so, that’s a kind of love. Are you just wraped up in your own thoughts and never think about anyone else?

Maybe you could just start by spending time with people and getting to know them without putting any demands on yourself and let relationships grow into what they are. Be kind and considerate and you’d be amazed at how it wil be returned to you most of the time.

Communicate with the people in your life and be honest….that’s how relationships are built and see what happens……………….you just might end up feeling something you didn’t know was there.

More Like This
Advisor

Love & Relationships

Dating, Marriage, Breakups

Ask an advisor one-on-one!
Advisor

SilverSingles

Online Dating, Relationships, Matchmaking

Advisor

Amazing Love Quotes

Dating, Relationships, Advice

Advisor

Wownow

Marriage Counseling, Relationship Counseling, Consultant

Advisor

Mindelation

Therapy Services, Self-Healing, Neuro-Linguistic Programming