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Im so scared I dont know how to tell my mom or my dad.. they''ll hate me.. Im just scared what my mom will do.. shes an alcoholic. she''ll like beat me or something. Its like I wanna run away so bad. im 13 weeks. I need to get outta here.. my fam is way to violent.
help please? advice much?
You need to leave that house first of all. Do you have a family member that you go to for support, I'm sure they know how your mom is and would understand.
Then you can have them come with you to tell your mother, you need someone else's help me dear. You can't do this on your own. Call someone you trust and have them help you and get you out of that house.
You need to decide what to do and you need medical attention. It's not safe for you or the baby to not be going to the doctor and getting on prenatal vitamins and getting health care. These are very important things you have to do.
You need to decide what to do - now. You can either give it up for adoption, abort it, or keep it. I highly suggest you do not keep it seeing the position that you are in though.
Call Planned Parenthood. They have counselors that will talk to you about every options and help you out.
if you are afraid your parents will hurt you, deffinately get out of the house until you figure things with the pregnancy out. either stay with a friend, or your boyfriends family, do they know, and how do they feel about it? get yourself to a planned parenthood and I dont know if abortion is in the picture but if it is, try to get enough money for one so you dont even need to tell your parents but if you must, do it over the phone. good luck :/ and try to be more careful next time! maybe even get birth control when and if you visit a planned parenthood unit.
Talk to your boyfriends parents if you dont wont to tell urs there adults they may get mad but theyll understand... if you dont wont to go to your boyfreinds parenents go to a teacher or a friends parent someone you trust just remeber once you tell someone you will fell a lot better and you maybe surprised at how understanding they are
your parents will be upset any parent would just talk to them it will be ok when I was fourteen I got pregnant I was scared too. so your not alone your parents loves you so talk to them and maybe you and your boyfriend and your family his family can come together and make a descion which is best for the both of you good luck
im 14 too and I had a scare before. I know how you feel. you need to stay with a friend and tell your parents before you start showing too much...email me at xxwaiting4eternityxx@hotmail.com if you need to talk with someone your own age. I'll understand. and DONT fall down the stairs...thts murder...
talk to someone at planned parent hood its to late for plan B have a older friend 18 or older take you for an abortation if thats what you want get some money your way to far along for plan B . im sorry I dont know what else I can tell you
tell them over the phone its way easier then you'll knoq do c what her expression is then as the reaction of what she acts like that should determine it. I mean she cant beat you it just will hurt the baby if she does that,
well if the situation at home is that bad than I would say talk to a family member and have them there when you tell them.you could get emancipated from your parents or you could talk to a school counsler.good luck
stay with a friend and tell your parents on the phone because then they cant hurt you and you need to stay away from them for awhile until you parents calm down.
I know your scared but you have to tell your mom or dad. If they react bad seek help from planned parent hood at the hospital or a relative. Good luck.
emogall100 is right. do just what she says.
